Don't Live With the Frustration and Stress of Parenting an Unmotivated Teenager Any Longer
Learn how to unlock your teenagers motivation even if you feel like it is a lost cause!
Parenting an unmotivated teenager is stressful and exhausting.
You have promising, lovable teenager, who has been a pretty good kid, and still is. But there is a problem that is starting to dominate everything else...
Your teenager is unmotivated!
Not just a bit lazy, or slightly distracted. No, your teenager is chronically unmotivated to the point that you are worried it is going to limit the options they will have in the future.
You have tried everything.
You have given them freedom to manage things and you have tried managing things for them. You have offered them rewards, issued consequences, explained the significance of what is at stake, asked them nicely, threatened them, and even pleaded with them to "at least just try!"
But nothing seems to work.
And it’s so frustrating because you know your teenager has loads of potential! If only they would just put in the effort.
But it feels impossible to get through to them and make them see sense. And the more you try the worse things get between the two of you.
Instead of enjoying watching your child develop into the adult you always hoped, you are left stressing about their future and wondering what you are doing wrong as a parent.
You want to give up, but you can't because they are you child and you want them to have the best possible chance of life.
It doesn't have to be this way!
You can learn how to turn around, even if you feel like giving up.
Motivating Teenagers Course
The Motivating Teenagers Course is an online course that shows parents how to motivate their uninterested or underachieving teenager. In this self paced program, you will learn exactly what you need to do to unlock your teenager's motivation, and how you can go about it, step-by-step. Discover why most common parenting techniques actually demotivate teenagers, and what you need to do instead to find the secret to motivating your teenager.
Here’s What You’ll Get When You Sign Up
You will get instant lifetime access to the course area and all the modules and lessons. The course consists of 19 video lessons spread across 6 easy to follow modules. Each module comes with a downloadable worksheet to help you apply what you are learning to you and your teenager. There is over 4 hours of recorded content to take in, so each lesson also has a downloadable MP3 file that you can listen to when you are on the move.
Discover What Your Teenager Needs
Instead of trying whatever you can to try and motivate your teen, this course will teach you to identify the specific issues to focus on for YOUR teenager.
Stop Worrying About Their Future
Make stressing about your teenager not realizing their potential a thing of the past. Learn how to focus your energy into constructively empowering your teenager.
No More Arguing
When you have strategies that don't rely on you forcing, threatening, or nagging your teenager, then you will spend less time arguing and more time enjoying one another.
Get Rid Of Parenting Self Doubt
Instead of wondering what you are doing wrong, and getting down on yourself as a parent, learn proven strategies that work and get you parenting mojo back.
Improve Your Parenting Skills
This course isn't a theory lesson, but it is full of practical ideas and tips for you to incorporate into your parenting... we even get down to exactly what words to say when.
Enjoy Seeing Your Teenager Thrive
Once you help your teenager overcome those things that are holding them back, you will get to enjoy watching your teen realise their potential. How good will that feel?
Here’s what people are saying about the course
Here is what some of the parents who have done the course have said about it. They were all feeling stressed and helpless about their teenager when they started
I can't say enough about the comprehensiveness and usefulness of this material. From the opening lesson all the way to the end Chris challenges the common and erroneous beliefs we have about teenagers in general but specifically with regards to motivation. The material is very optimistic and valuable . It is something that I will grow into as I change the way I think and the way I parent and I can already see an Improvement in the way my daughter approaches school this year . Chris is a very clear and effective communicator and has much wisdom to offer any parent in general that has a teen but specifically one that has a teen that seems lost, unmotivated or stuck.
This course has completely changed my relationship with my teenage son in just a few months. The course is actually about us, the parents, being aware of how we treat our kids and the many, many common mistakes we make every day without even realising it! For me, the course was about learning to see my son on his own terms for the first time, instead of forcing my own ideas, preconceptions and values on to him. I learned the different types of motivation, how they work and how and when to use them. Chris explains all the concepts with total clarity and give examples that, as parents, we can all relate to. I found the course fascinating but also had to face some hard truths about how I was behaving with my son. I am now able to see things from his angle and really listen to him. As a result, after just a few months, our relationship has gone from tense, defensive and uncommunicative, to relaxed and open, where we share things, chat to each other and spend quality time together...I highly recommend this course to any parent who is despair of motivating their teen or having a good relationship with them. It really will change your lives!
South Australia, Australia
Motivating Teenagers really helped me get in touch with my fears and agendas for my teen. This was an invaluable insight as it truly enlightened my teens individual and unique path. It brought to the light what I was doing to block communication and opened up the dialogue. And, the session on chores and reframing worked exceptionally well. It’s been insightful. Our teens can teach us so much about ourselves when we dare to be truly present and listen to their voice while quietening our own. Thank you.:)
What’s in the Course?
The course comprises of 6 easy to follow modules, that make it easy for you to help your teenager find their own drive and focus in life.
Module 1: The Secret of Your Unmotivated Teenager
In this very first module you will discover the why common assumptions and strategies for motivating teenagers are at best ineffective and at worst actually damaging to a teenager and their desire to change. Lessons include "Why You Cannot Motivate Your Teenager" and "How Your Teenager is Already Motivated."
Module 2: 3 Things Every Motivated Teen Needs
In module 2 you will discover the conditions teenagers require to develop lasting self-motivation. Research has shown that for people of any age to desire and effect change they need 3 things; Autonomy, Competence, & Relationships. This module shows how as parents you can provide this for your teenager, and what types of parenting inhibit these things occurring.
Module 3: Change Blockers - The Enemies of Motivation
Even with your focus on providing your teenager with what they need to be motivated, there can still be specific issues that can block or be a barrier to teenager's making changes. So in module 3 you will learn about the most common types of blocks that prevent teenagers from being self-motivated.
Module 4: Helping Your Teen Overcome Ambivalence
In module 4 we focus solely on how to help your teenager overcome ambivalence. In Module 3 you would have learnt that ambivalence is the most common and in some ways complex obstacle to change. This module walks you through a 3 step process that you can follow to help your teenager resolve their abivalence and make progress in positive direction.
Module 5: Strategies for Solving Your Teen's Change Blockers
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Module 6: How & When To Used External Motivation
In the last module you will learn when and how to effectively use extrinsic motivational tactics with your teenager. There are lots of ways this can be done, and although most of the course is focused on your teenager's internal drivers for change, there is definitely a place for strategic use of external motivators when parenting teenagers.
But Wait There's More.....
Along with all the videos, notes, and worksheets included in the course you also receive complimentary access to additional material and content to help you with specific parenting challenges
"Getting Teens Helping Around The Home"
Because nearly every parent at some stage struggle with getting teenagers doing their fair share around the house, Chris has put together a Parenting Guide and Workbook focused on just this issue.
Getting Teens Helping Around the Home is a short guide for showing parents how to get teenagers to do housework without it being a source of stress and tension. By applying the same motivational principles you will taught in the Motivating Teenagers Course, this guide and accompanying workbook provide strategies and ideas for parents to get teenagers contributing to family life.
"10 Self-Esteem Exercises For Teenagers "
Motivation is closely associated with confidence and self-belief. For many young people a big part of the motivation challenge is having a view of themselves that is healthy and constructive.
10 Self Esteem Exercises For Teenagers provides parents with 10 easy to implement ideas that they can share with their teenager who might be struggling to develop or maintain a positive self-image. With a range of exercises and strategies, this guide will provide plenty of inspiration for parents who are struggling to help their teenager find their mojo!
About The Course Teacher,
Chris Hudson M.Ed.
Chris Hudson is a Youth Specialist, Parent Coach and founder of Understanding Teenagers – a service that specialises in helping parents like you build better relationships with their teenagers. He works with individuals and organisations in Australia and internationally as a coach, consultant, and speaker equipping adults and young people to achieve lasting transformation.
With over 20 years of experience working with young people and their families, Chris brings a unique depth of knowledge and understanding to the issues parents face raising teenagers.
Chris is also a parent himself, and knows first hand that no parent is perfect, and every family has it's own quirks and challenges. He is a firm believer that with kindness, courage, and the ability to see the lighter side occasionally, all parents can build lasting satisfying connections with their kids.
Here’s what people are saying about the working with Chris
Parenting Coodinator, NSW, Australia
Sincere thanks Chris for the work that you have done with the parents in our schools at the end of last term. The parents who attended felt it was so helpful and provided a lot of strategies and practical advice which some parent presentations by other presenters have lacked."
Principal, QLD, Australia
Thoroughly enjoyed the training with Chris. Excellent content. Very good to hear someone who has worked their way to clarity and who can talk with such mastery on the subject of teenagers.
Parent, NSW, Australia
Chris explained parenting teenagers in a very easy to follow structure & with excellent knowledge. Great & refreshing. Really empowering to parents.
Invest In You and Your Teenager!
Living with an unmotivated teenager is not fun. And it usually puts lots of relational strain on the whole family. Not to mention the emotional and mental fatigue it causes for you as a parent.
This course has been created to provide effective assistance that can be accessed by nearly anyone. And in doing so it aims to deliver exceptional value by providing life changing advice and strategies for a relatively small financial cost.
When you consider the months and years of stress and frustration that can be avoided when you are able to relax and see your teen focused and content, the cost of a course like this provides an amazing opportunity - not only for you, but for your teenager!
With over 4 hours of recorded content plus workbooks and bonuses this course represents incredible value. Personal coaching with Chris for 4 hours costs over $750, and in some cases much, much more! With this program you get enough material to making a lasting impact to your teenager and your family, for less than the cost of single coaching session.
For those who would like to have extra assistance this course comes with the option of working directly with Chris at a heavily discounted rate to assist you make the most of what you are learning.
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100% Satisfaction Guarantee for 60-Days
This course has already helped families from countries all around the world, and we are very confident that it can help you and your teenager. But we don't want you to just take our word for it.
That is why this course comes with a 60 day Unconditional 100% Satisfaction Guarantee. If after purchasing and trying the course you are not happy or satisfied for any reason, you will receive 100% of your money back. No questions, no strings, no conditions, no secret admin charges! Just let us know you aren't happy and we will refund your money.
Look at what other parents have to say about this course
Wish I Knew This Sooner!
Since I got the course material, I have been finding excuses to read. After viewing the material I am filled with regrets asking myself how come this was not available when my child was 14. We work so hard on correcting our kids but at time it is we the parents who need to correct. This course has helped me evaluate my parenting style and find less complains about my teen.
New Jersey, USA
Much Needed Perspective
As parents we are so quick to lead when it's really our job to follow. All children are unique and its our role is listen and guide; not to overpower and dominate their experience. The Motivating teenagers program gives parents a much needed perspective on how to work in collaboration with your kids to lessen the push and pull of these pivotal years.
Frequently Asked Questions
What Do I Need To Access The Course Material?
Access to the material requires access to the internet and a device to view or listen to videos or audio recordings. Every lesson also has a downloadable transcript (PDF) and each module has a downloadable workbook (PDF). All material can be downloaded and stored on your local device.
What Type of Motivational Issues Are Covered?
This course provides a framework to understanding teenage motivation that can be applied to nearly any number of specific teenage motivational issues. Some of the most common issues faced by parents that this course equips you to solve include; study and education, social interaction and freindships, helping around the house, exercise and sport, getting a job, and many more.
Is The Course Suitable for All Teenagers?
The course contains concepts, strategies, and ideas that are widely accepted and applied in all types of family and professional environments. The content is applicable to most common types of teenage behaviours and can be implemented by nearly anyone. However, if your teenager is suffering from specific emotional or mental health issues such as depression, anxiety, obsessive behaviours, or is being treated for any psychiatric illnesses, then this course is not recommended, unless it is done under guidance and supervision of your health professional.
Do I get to work personally with Chris?
If you purchase Coaching Course you will receive access to all the online materials and 6 personal online coaching sessions with Chris to help you apply and implement what you are learning online.
If you purchase Regular Course you will receive access to all the online materials, which are written and presented by Chris, but there is no one-on-one coaching included.
What Is The Course Material Based On?
The main theoretical concepts underpinning this program are based on Self Determination Theory (SDT) which is a well established and widely accepted approach to motivational study and practice. These concepts are augmented with basic psycho-social adolescent development theories that form the basis of most psychological and educational approaches of modern adolescence. While the course is based on established research and theory, it is presented in a very easy to understand and practical manner. The focus is on actions and behaviours - so you don't need a degree in anything to apply what you learn!
Are There Any Guarantees?
While the content and strategies in this course are backed by research and years of refining with families everywhere, every family and teenager is different. This means that for some families this course may not produce the results it has for others. If this is the case for you, and you don't get the desired results simply request your money back and we will refund 100% of what of you paid. No questions or conditions. So while there are no guarantees, there is also no risk to you!
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A Note From Chris
Hi there, and thanks for reading (or skimming) this far down the page. This course is something I am proud of, mainly because I know it works and I have seen the relief in parent's faces when their teenager has turned the corner. My sincere hope is that by doing this course, you and your teenager can discover and realise a whole world of possibilities.
I hope it helps.